Hi, I'm Trudie.

I've always been fascinated by the way something as simple as having your hair played with can instantly make your whole body relax.

For many of us, our earliest memories of comfort came through gentle touch. A parent softly playing with our hair, tracing circles on our back, or helping us drift off to sleep. Those quiet moments made us feel safe, cared for, and completely at ease.

I started to notice a pattern. The simplest moments often brought the greatest sense of calm. Whether it was the gentle brushing during a haircut, someone I loved playing with my hair while we watched a movie, or the comforting touch of a parent when I was young, I always found myself wishing those moments lasted just a little longer.

Then I realized I wasn't the only one wishing they lasted longer.

That's why I created HairPlay. A space where those fleeting moments become the entire experience.

In a world where we're always rushing, meaningful human touch has become surprisingly rare. HairPlay is a place where you can slow down, disconnect from the constant noise of everyday life, and simply receive care through gentle scalp touch and intentional hair play. There is nothing to do, nothing to accomplish, and nowhere else to be.

Whether you're looking to unwind after a long week, take a break from the demands of everyday life, or simply experience something different, I'd be honored to welcome you to my private studio in the heart of Downtown Long Beach.

I can't wait to welcome you to HairPlayLB.

The Benefits of HairPlay:

It feels amazing. And there’s science behind why.

There’s a reason having someone play with your hair, gently scratch your scalp, or trace their fingertips across your back can make your whole body go ahhhhh.

Research suggests that positive, consensual touch can support both physical and emotional well-being. A major 2024 review of 137 studies involving nearly 13,000 people found that touch interventions were associated with benefits across a range of physical and mental health outcomes.

Helps You Relax & Unwind

Gentle touch can help create a sense of calm and relaxation. Research on touch interventions has found associations with reduced stress and anxiety, giving some scientific context to that wonderfully zoned-out feeling you can get during HairPlay.

Sometimes your nervous system just needs a little quiet.

Activates Those Feel-Good Sensations

Your skin contains specialized sensory nerve fibers that respond particularly well to slow, gentle touch. These pathways are connected not only to detecting touch, but also to how pleasant and comforting that touch feels.

It's part of the science behind the scalp scratches, back tracing, hair play and light touches that make your eyes close and give you those please don't stop tingles.

Gives Your Brain a Break

No phone. No emails. No errands. No one needing anything from you.

For 30, 60 or 90 minutes, your only job is to get comfortable and receive. HairPlayLB creates dedicated space to slow down, disconnect from everything outside the room and focus entirely on how you feel.

You don't have to be productive here.

The Power of Human Touch

Touch is more than a physical sensation. Research into affective touch shows that pleasant touch interacts with systems involved in emotion, comfort and social connection.

In an increasingly screen-filled world, intentionally making space for safe, consensual human touch can be meaningful all on its own.

At HairPlayLB, touch is always professional, consensual and nonsexual, and every session is customized around your preferences and boundaries.

Frequently Asked Questions

  • HairPlay is a relaxation and sensory experience centered around the simple things that feel ridiculously good: having your hair played with, scalp scratches, back and arm scratches, gentle tracing, light touch, and ASMR-inspired sensations.

    Think of all the things you ask someone to do for you and they stop after 30 seconds. We don't stop.

  • You'll start by letting me know what you love, what you don't, and any areas you'd prefer I avoid. Then you get comfortable and I take it from there.

    Your session can include hair play, scalp scratching, back and arm scratches, gentle tracing, and different tools and techniques. Everything is customized based on your preferences.

  • No. HairPlayLB is not massage therapy and isn't intended to manipulate muscles or treat injuries or medical conditions.

    The focus is gentle touch, scratching, hair play, sensory stimulation, and relaxation.

  • No. HairPlayLB is completely nonsexual.

    All touch is professional, consensual, and within clearly established boundaries. Sexual behavior, requests, or inappropriate conduct are not permitted.

  • HairPlayLB is ASMR-inspired, but you don't need to experience ASMR to enjoy it.

    Some clients experience tingles or goosebumps from certain sounds, movements, scratches, or gentle touch. Others simply become deeply relaxed. There is no “right” response.

  • Please do.

    Too light? Tell me. Want more pressure? Tell me. Found the exact spot you never want me to stop scratching? Definitely tell me.

    Your session is about what feels good to you, and feedback is always welcome.

  • Absolutely.

    HairPlayLB is for anyone who enjoys relaxing, nonsexual touch. All clients are held to the same professional boundaries and policies.

  • That's completely normal, especially because HairPlay isn't something most people have booked before.

    We'll go over everything before we begin, and you're never expected to know exactly what you want. The goal is for you to feel comfortable, safe, and able to relax.

    If you're curious but aren't ready to commit to a longer appointment, The Reset, our 30-minute experience, is a great place to start.

  • Clean, dry hair is best for HairPlay sessions. You don't need to freshly wash it immediately before your appointment, but please arrive with hair that is clean and free from excessive oils or heavy styling products.

  • Absolutely no products will be used.

  • Yes! Depending on your session and preferences, I may incorporate different sensory tools along with my hands and nails to create different scratching, tracing, and tingling sensations.

    If there's anything you don't enjoy, we simply don't use it.

  • Yes. Your comfort and privacy are important.

    Appropriate draping is used throughout the session, and only areas being worked on are uncovered as needed and with your consent.

  • Absolutely. If you already know you love scalp scratches, back scratches, hair play, arm tracing, or a particular technique you've seen in one of my videos, let me know!

    Your session can be customized around your favorites, and we can spend more time on the sensations and areas you enjoy most. And if you're not sure yet, that's okay too. We'll figure out what makes you melt.

  • Not at all. That's part of the experience!

    Some people already know they could have their back scratched for three hours straight. Others have no idea what they'll like until we start experimenting with different sensations.

    We'll talk about your preferences beforehand, and you can give feedback at any point during your session.

  • Depending on your comfort level and preferences, HairPlay may include your hair and scalp, neck, shoulders, back, arms, hands, legs, and décolletage/upper chest area.

    You are always in control of which areas are included. Nothing is ever touched without your consent.

  • Whatever makes you comfortable.

    Depending on which areas you'd like included, you may be given the option to adjust or remove certain clothing while remaining appropriately covered and draped. You're also completely welcome to remain fully clothed.

    We'll discuss everything before your session so there are no surprises.

  • Nope.

    Want to chat? We can chat. Want to close your eyes, listen to the music, and completely disappear for an hour? Even better.

    There's no pressure to make conversation.

  • Then I consider that a compliment. 😌

    You're welcome to sleep, zone out, or simply enjoy the experience however your body wants to.

  • Item deIf you're curious but aren't sure what to expect, The Reset (30 minutes) is a great introduction.

    If you're already thinking, Thirty minutes isn't going to be enough, go with 60 minutes.

    And if you're someone who gets annoyed when a back scratch ends? You already know what to do. 90 minutes.cription

  • Yes! New clients can experience a full HairPlayLB session at special introductory pricing:

    60 minutes: $99
    Regularly $150

    90 minutes: $150
    Regularly $200

    The introductory offer is available for your first visit only.

  • Please do. 😉

    You can book individual appointments whenever you need them, or if HairPlay becomes part of your regular self-care routine, the HPLB Annual Membership includes one 60-minute session every month plus additional member perks and savings.

  • Life happens. If you need to cancel or reschedule, please provide at least 24 hours' notice.

    Appointments canceled within 24 hours of the scheduled appointment time are subject to the full appointment charge.

  • Gratuity is never required, but always appreciated if you'd like to leave one.

  • Yes! Gift certificates are available, and honestly, giving someone an hour where nobody needs anything from them is a pretty great gift.

  • Please let me know before your appointment about anything that could affect your experience or make certain types of touch uncomfortable.

    HairPlayLB is a relaxation and wellness service and is not medical care or massage therapy. If you're unsure whether HairPlay is appropriate for you because of a medical condition or injury, please consult your healthcare provider before booking.

  • HairPlay is new to a lot of people, so there are no weird questions.

    If there's something you're wondering about that isn't answered here, reach out before booking. I'd much rather answer your question than have you feel unsure about coming in.

Downtown Long Beach, CA

Hours:

Monday: 11:00 AM - 9 PM

Tuesday: 11:00 AM - 9 PM

Wednesday: 11:00 AM - 9 PM

Thursday: 11:00 AM - 9 PM

Friday: 11:00 AM - 9 PM

Saturday: 11:00 AM - 9 PM

Sunday: 11:00 AM - 9 PM

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